About Alexis

Life isn’t black and white—it’s lived in the grey, in the and.

For the past decade, I’ve been a luxury real estate agent, and while I still work with a select group of clients, I’ve realized something important: there will always be another house to sell, but I have three childhoods that won’t wait. My pursuit now? Peace. If something disrupts that—whether a mindset, a commitment, or even a person—I let it go.

Welcome to The & Life, where we embrace and instead of or. Motherhood and adventure. Wellness and elegance. Slow living and spontaneous travel. Here, we don’t choose between passions—we make space for all of them.

Our journey is one of exploration, wellness, and living intentionally. From hidden-gem destinations to holistic living, we share everything that elevates everyday life. Think luxurious yet natural living—gourmet whole-food recipes, sustainable home inspiration, and travel experiences that feed the soul.

Paradise is personal. For me, it’s fresh air, kids and dogs running wild, country music on the radio, the scent of morning coffee, and no Wi-Fi. It’s the kind of getaway that realigns the soul before stepping back into life’s next adventure. And I equally love a five-star hotel with room service, valet, and all the indulgent accoutrements. Because why choose just one when life is meant to be lived in and?

 Whether it’s a stunning beach resort, a quaint mountain retreat, or an exclusive city escape, we bring you along for the ride, sharing our experiences and insights to help you plan your next perfect getaway.

Because at the end of the day, travel isn’t just something I do—it’s my love language.

Join me as we build a life filled with and, not or.